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Response to Sharon H
The reason I started this blog was because I was getting the most encouraging and uplifting e-mail and phone messages after I shared my news on the air, that I felt I needed to share what I was seeing and hearing with everyone who cared or needed to know.
I received a post from Sharon H., a listener I don't know but hope to get to know via my blog. Here is a portion of what she said:
Kaedy, When I first found out I had Breast Cancer I totally fell apart. I continued to work like you are doing but up through the surgery until I was in radiation treatment I was going around like I was already dead. I finally got over it once I realized that it was something that I could handle. Radiation is nothing compared to Chemo. I see now that I was a big baby compared to you.
Sharon, I loved hearing from you but you give me too much credit. I'm not that brave. This disease is so devastating and scary that I believe that any way a person reacts to it is acceptable. I cried like a baby for hours when I thought I'd have to have chemo -- all because I didn't want to appear weak and lose my hair! I was a zombie for the first couple of weeks after I found my lump. The news at first is almost too much to take in. And the doctors can't tell you anything initially, so you don't know if you're going to die from this disease, be maimed, lose your hair, or what. You live not knowing any answers for quite some time and, I have a feeling, you probably always have in the back of your mind that it might come back at any time. But what I have that you probably didn't, Sharon, was two of my best girlfriends that had both been diagnosed with breast cancer within the past 5 years, Kathy and Susan. I had their example to follow -- Kathy has two young children, and had a double mastectomy with chemo. Susan was diagnosed during the Blue Cross/Blue Shield and Piedmont drama a couple of years ago, and she had about a week to make a decision about her surgery and doctors before her Blue Cross insurance would no longer pay for her doctors at Piedmont. She had a mastectomy. Both of these women were truly amazing to me. They got through it just fine, and are better now than they ever were! These brave friends give me hope and help me stay positive every day. So do people like you, Sharon. And I'll bet there are a countless number of people you have been a source of strength for since you handled your diagnosis.
Thank you for your encouragement! I hope you're happy and healthy, and I am honored that you are blogging here with me!
What others are saying
- Thanks!Thanks for your comments Kaedy, but I still say that you have an amazing attitude. When a person has Cancer and continues to live their life as they did before the diagnosis it proves their strength and bravery. I'm glad your friends are survivors like me and you have their support. It can be a very lonely time in your life.
It is important to never worry too much about it coming back though. That would be like getting in your car for your daily commute and worrying about getting killed in a car wreck. Life is way to short for that! If nothing else this illness will make you appreciate life more than ever!
Take care and hang tough!
Sharon H.
P.S. - what the heck is a trackback? - Hi Kaedy!! Great blog!! I've enjoyed every post and you are truly an inspiration to those going through treatment and to those of us you have already run the gauntlet. You say you're not brave, well, I disagree with you girl. You ARE brave! And courageous and most important you ARE a survivor!
As far as the hair thing, I cried too. Let me rephrase that...I had a pity party, cry fest the day I decided to let my husband shave my head. But, as soon as the locks of blond were gone, my tears were dry and gone. Like you said everyone reacts differently, any reaction is acceptable.
We're all praying for you as you go through this and always remember you're not alone.
Keep on blogging!
HUGS
Julie W.
Franklin, NC
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